im a bad person who thinks bad thoughts like ‘ew what is that girl wearing’ and then remember that im supposed to be positive about all things and then think ‘no she can wear what she wants, fuck what other people say damn girl u look fabulous’ and im just a teeny bit hypocritical tbh
I was always taught by my mother, That the first thought that goes through your mind is what you have been conditioned to think. What you think next defines who you are.
You actually learn in Counselling that it is ok to be judgemental as long as you are aware that you’re being judgemental and don’t let it impact your behaviour towards others.
“healing: a dragging process when your heart is still rooted in things you’re trying to get over. make peace, chin up, walk again. try..”